AN INTRODUCTION TO SEXUAL SELF-MASTERY

Is it possible to bypass ejaculation and prolong lovemaking without taking prescription pills?

Absolutely.

Is it possible for a man to experience multiple orgasms without ejaculating?

Yes.

Does it require that you believe in any kind of mystical spiritual energy? Or that you are a master yogi?

No. Absolutely not. Any man can develop this skill.

Doesn’t it require disciplined practice?

Of course it does.

It’s no secret that most men experience a tremendous amount of stress when it comes to performing in bed. Porn doesn’t help. We see videos of bodybuilders jacked on steroids and viagra having their way with models who appear to be dripping in ecstatic bliss for upwards of an hour—and we somehow try to translate those images into our own bedrooms.

Even if we are of the physical stature to perform in such a way, most commercial porn is made to appeal to men, not women. Therefore, it has a tendency to portray sex as something other than what's really going on in our bedrooms, especially when we are there to share an experience with someone we truly love.

If you were to ask your current or past intimate partner what they would want to experience intimately, would it look like what you see in your favorite porn videos? If she was brutally honest with you, would it look at all like the fantasies you have in your head?

Chances are unlikely.

The last thing a woman wants to feel is that a man is using her body for his own satisfaction, while disregarding her own needs.

What isn’t attractive to a woman?

When her man is overwhelmed by his own urge to ejaculate, his body becomes bound up and tight, his breath becomes fast and shallow, and his only interest is on the objective of orgasm.

What is attractive to a woman?

A man who confidently embodies the full force of his sexual prowess, disciplined, yet not suppressed.

She doesn’t want a heartless man who is all brute force and no feeling. Nor does she want someone who is completely passive—all heart, no balls—who hides his sex drive and lacks the confidence to claim her.

She wants to feel the full force of your desire for her, as well as your ability to navigate those moments of desire with impeccable presence. She wants to feel you powerful, yet completely restrained. She wants to feel your sexual desire balanced with your discipline to control it.

When a man can demonstrate this combination of owned sexual desire combined with disciplined restraint, he will discover a new level of confidence around women and during lovemaking—a confidence that is not driven by ego or machismo.

Whether you decide to convert this newly restored life-force into internal orgasms that explode with ecstasy through your heart and head, or you decide to diffuse this energy outwards in every direction through your partner and into infinity, or if you decide to convert this energy and channel it directly into your life mission, all of the above become possible. This practice is about living life at your fullest potential, and mastering your relationship to sex is fundamental to living a fully empowered life.

This is only the beginning of a long conversation and a lifelong practice.

For an in-depth tutorial to help you get started, click here to read: Multiple Orgasms for Men: A Beginner's Guide to Bypassing Ejaculation and Prolonging Lovemaking by Justin Patrick Pierce